Journal : Wisam's Engagement Party

February 24, 2002

Wisam's Engagement Party

[West Bank, Palestine] Wow. In Palestine, an engagement is a very big deal. My friend Wisam got formally engaged today. There were 800, 900, maybe 1,000 people there for the ring ceremony. It was actually a lot like a wedding back home. First we greeted the families as we entered the dance hall. Then an Orthodox priest led us through a religious ceremony. They exchanged rings. I don't think they kissed though. (Too bad.) Then Wisam brought out a huge sword and cut the engagement cake. After everyone had cake, the couple danced a single song together. Then we formed a long line and said good-bye to the families, including the engaged couple.

 

 

A few hours later we met at the same dance hall for dinner and dancing. It was fantastic! The couple was dancing almost the entire time. Wisam and his fiancé stepped onto a round table and the young men lifted it to their shoulders. Then they walked in circles and bounced them around. Then they swayed one side down a bit. And all the while the two were standing balanced on the table. Then the couple were lifted on chairs and then on shoulders. And there were so many other dances. Dances in circles around the couple. Skipping around the room. Line dancing face to face. It was a happy wild scene. Everyone was having a good time. Congratulations, Wisam.

 

 

 


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